The Amy and Lisa Page
Last Update: 11/29/2006

The 2006 Amy Fedel Memorial Concert

Click here for information about the 2006 Amy Fedel Memorial Concert.

This concert is a benefit for the Epilepsy Foundation of Michigan and the Brain Injury Association of Michigan.

HELP! Note that you can also link to the Press Release or a flyer that you could print and distribute to help us let people know about the event. THANKS!
This is a new link to the small postcard size announcements ( front and back) we've been handing out. Again, if you want to help, please print some of these and hand them out to friends.


Lisa - Grade 8 [2006-2007 school year]
May 22, 1997 - One of mom and dad's favorite photos of Amy. The chalk says "I (heart) my bike / I try hard / I don't quit / I know I can DO IT / who am I? AMY"

News

  • Information about the 2006 Amy Fedel Memorial Concert is here.
    You can also link to the Press Release or a flyer that you could print and distribute to help us let people know about the event. THANKS!
    This is a new link to the small postcard size announcements ( front and back) we've been handing out. Again, if you want to help, please print some of these and hand them out to friends.

Old News


Photos

Click any of the photos below to jump (some jump to pages, some to larger photo)

Click the image below to see Amy's notes about drinking and drugs


What Happened

Amy Fedel was killed by a drunk driver on August 1, 1998, four days after her eighth birthday. Her little sister Lisa (5) was seriously injured and was in a coma for several weeks.

Their Story

At around 6 p.m. on Friday night, July 31, our family headed to northern Michigan for a weekend. Dad was planning to play the guitar with a church band at a service in Alpena on Sunday. We'd decided to go a day early so the girls would get to see the Mackinaw Bridge and play on the shores nearby.

We stopped for dinner at a Big Boy restaurant. Amy and Lisa were excited to see a hot air balloon that dipped down to fifty feet or so across the street. We talked about maybe taking a hot air balloon ride next summer.

Amy was her usual self during dinner: enthusiastic, funny, curious, playing with her sister. She had crab for dinner and ordered the hot fudge cake for dessert. She let it melt down a bit, then stirred together the fudge, the cake, and the melted ice cream. She said she was making a "soup" and invited the rest of the family to taste it.

When we left the restaurant, Lisa and Mom had to use the girl's room, so Dad and Amy took a walk to the gas station next door. Dad bought himself a candy bar. As we walked back across the deserted yard between the restaurant, Amy commented on all the broken bottles, small car parts, and various other litter. (That was an ongoing subject for her. She'd often pick up bits of trash and throw them away if there a nearby trash can. She didn't understand why people wanted to "ruin the planet" as she said.)

We got back into the Aerostar and started north again on I-75.

At about the same time, there was a drunk driver coming north on the same road.

The drive was uneventful. Amy spent most of the time in the back seat playing with Lisa and a new doll they'd got earlier.

As it got later, Amy lost herself in a book. She'd brought several even though we were going to be gone only 2 days. She loved reading and often went through several books in one day. This might have been a Bailey School book or a Babysitter's Club book. (We still haven't determined exactly which book it was or whether it was recovered from the crash.)

She was reading in the back seat using her flashlight for quite a while after dark. She finally proudly announced "I'm done now!", closed the book, put her head back against the seat, and fell asleep.

Dad noticed a string of tail lights in the road ahead. In front of them was a double row of yellow lights. A semi truck had turned over on its side and traffic was stopped. There were a handful of cars already stopped. We slowed down, eventually stopped at the end of the line.

The other driver didn't.

From his report, he had his cruise control set at 70 M.P.H. By the time he noticed that the cars were not moving, it was too late to brake. There were no skid marks, he hit the back of our van at his full running speed.

We would later learn that our beloved Amy was killed instantly.

Lisa's injuries were also classified as severe but she survived. She was in a coma for several weeks and in hospital for several more. Lisa's treatment while in Petoskey was handled by a wonderful doctor named Dr. David Morris at Northern Michigan Hospital. She was transferred to Mott Children's Hospital in Ann Arbor on August 20, then released for outpatient rehabilitation services on September 18.

Mom and Dad were also taken to hospital. Jean suffered a tibial head fracture (a nasty type of broken leg) and three broken ribs. Mike had a broken scapula and cuts on the forehead.

The driver pleaded guilty to 2 counts of OUIL, one causing death and one causing injury. (These were the charges for Amy and Lisa.) Similar charges for Mike and Jean were dropped in exchange for the plea.

The driver was sentenced on February 2, 1999 to serve 4-to-15 years for OUIL causing Death (Amy) and 3-to-5 years for OUIL causing Injury (Lisa). In Michigan, these sentence are served concurrently. The actual time served will probably be less than 3 years.

Announcements and other relevant links

Link to MADD National Home Page

MADD is the well-known national organization which does constant work to make people aware of the impact of drunk driving, to encourage legislative change, and to help families who are caught in this nightmare make it through the next day, the next week, the next year.

Link to The Compassionate Friends Home Page

This is an organization with which Mike and Jean have had some limited contact but who do wonderful work helping people get through times of grief.

Link to The Empty Arms Web Ring Home Page

The home page for a web ring that was created "for parents who are grieving the loss of a child." NOTE: This site loads with an active sound track.

This Empty Arms Ring site is owned by
Amy and Lisa Fedel's Family.

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